We love to read articles on how to become an escort and shake our heads in disappointment at the weakness of them and the key areas they omit, potentially making anybody you acts on the advice at risk of messing it all up.
Like anything in life if you want to become something you must have a full understanding of what it entails and more importantly the tools and common sense to become it.
You have to understand the main aspects and conduct your own research. Understanding the nature of the service, the legal aspects, as well as the diversity of people and situations that you will encounter are just a snippet.
We have created a guide of “how to become an escort”, which outlines the core elements about the service, the nature of the market, the legalities, the attributes needed by an escort, the clients and much more.
They are as follows:
Escort service: If you want to become an escort you have to understand the nature of the service. Without fully understanding it you will not stand a chance in starting out successfully as an escort.
Q. What is an escort service?
A. An escort service is when one or more individuals provide their time and companionship to one or more individuals.
Do not be fooled. A true, viable escort service is not providing sexual services in exchange for money. If you choose to do so, then your are not an escort and are breaking the law, it is that simple. Even though elements of the media may portray escorts to offer sexual services and some so called escorts have admitted to providing sexual services, that does not mean that should be attributed to what an escort is in the true sense.
Here is a comparison.
Just because a few MP’s could be corrupt, does not make them all corrupt.
Just because a country could contain terrorists, does not make the people or government terrorists.
You make think the above comparisons are extreme, but how would you feel if you are a viable escort and always stigmatised with the notion that you are just a front to offer sexual services? We reckon you will feel disgusted and offended and rightly so.
We are not naïve, there is no fire without smoke and like any profession or market, unfortunately there will be criminal elements.
Rule 1 - Understand that an escort service is for time and companionship service only
So what happens on an actual meeting with a client, what are the ins and outs?
Well the escort service is no different to offer services. You have somebody who provides the service and somebody who wants the companionship. Now the service can take one of two directions. Incall or outcall.
Incall - Where a client visit’s the home or apartment of an escort.
Outcall - Where the escort visit’s the home of the client, or attends a social function with them, or meets them at a hotel that has been pre-arranged.
To become a successful escort you have to understand all the instances of the incall and outcall service. Planning is key. If you are going on an outcall service remember the following:
Always plan your journey. This will avoid you being late, when meeting a client.
Always confirm the time an location of the meeting.
Always take your mobile phone with you, keep it on and keep it charged.
Ask for full details about the function. You may vegetarian, but there may be no vegetarian cuisine.
If viable, let somebody know where you are going.
Rule 2 - Understand the nature of the incall and outcall.
Rule 3 - Plan ahead, the more planning and attention to detail about all aspects of the service and client needs, will eliminate problems.
Rule 4 - Do not be afraid to ask the client questions and ensure your needs will be catered for. You are providing the service, but you have to ensure certain essential provisions are in place, ensuring you can effectively provide your service.
Tax - So you are an individual and receiving money from clients. So guess what, you no need to pay tax, no exceptions. Telephone you local Citizens Advice Bureau and get full information on the right government agencies to contact. It does not matter if you are an independent escort or agency escort, you are all self employed and it is important to manage your cash and money for tax sensibly.
Rule 5 - Understand you are self employed, eligible for tax and make sure you pay your tax.
Personal attributes - Some can argue that certain attributes fall on blind eyes for clients and that the diversity of people in the world will mean that everybody will have something to offer somebody, there anybody can become an escort at the drop of a hat. WRONG!WRONG!WRONG!
There are so many resources saying, hey you can become an escort, but guess what, not everybody will have what it takes to become one. That is just life. Here are a list of following attributes that will be key to have.
Rule 6 - Be yourself, you need to create a rapport with clients and it is advised to relax and be yourself. Do not try to be something you are not unless you can adopt that character convincingly.
Attractiveness: You have to be visually and physically attractive or possess attractive qualities. This is not’t a superficial stance to take, but one that is realistic. It is never good to generalise, but from feedback and experience male and female clients operate differently to a certain extent. Men tend to book attractive women. It’s life. Obviously personality is key but attractiveness is important and to many paramount. You need to posses that “look”, that independent glow that forms rapports on strangers due to your physical qualities.
Rule 7 - It goes without saying, but always look immaculate; dress immaculately, highlight your features and look 110% presentable.
Rule 8 - Your safety is paramount, never take chances. Always plan ahead and take your mobile phone with you, keep it fully charged in case of any emergencies.
Rule 9 - Market yourself effectively, with a professional website, professional photographs and a professional marketing advisor.
Rule 10 - Nothing is free in this world, free escort advertising take it with a pinch of salt, unless you have to give something in return. If you are stuck posting in forums everyday, then you are hardly at the peak of your profession, are you?
Common sense : You either have it or you don’t. Common sense drives us when adapting to new circumstances, evaluating situations and providing a service to potentially a stranger. Common sense will also safeguard your decision making especially when it comes to your safety. Unfortunately if you lack the common sense you would’t be aware that you did.
Personality - Personality is key, it is what defines you as an escort and the service you provide. Whether there are no gimmicks and you are as yourself, or whether you adopt a new one and theme your service, it is you as a person and how you react and create bonds and rapports with strangers. Some people just have the ability to naturally empower people, make them feel, safe secure etc
You have to decide whether you possess a personality strong, worthy and intriguing enough to justify somebody paying to be graced with it.
Marketing: Marketing is key and the effectiveness of how you market yourself will make you either sink or swim. The internet has provided a medium for escorts and escort agencies to advertise their services to potentially millions of clients.
Personal website - It is a very effective way to advertise. It should be informative, well structured and aesthetically pleasing. So if you are not a professional web designer with knowledge of the escort market, if you attempt to make them yourselves then you have just ensured that you will get poor clients, lack of clients and will find it hard to compete with the most professional escorts. Guess what when a pipe bursts you call a plumber, you do not fix it yourself. The same applies to having your website created. Use a trusted company and ensure they will provide an after care service where you can agree a rate for updates.
It makes sense that if you are going to market yourself then you should want your website to look as amazing as it can, as that is what is selling your service. We are shocked, but then not at the amount of poorly designed website's. It has an effect on how people relate to you and judge you. If a high flying business man turned up in a clapped out old vehicle what impression is he creating. If you want to cut those corners then it reflects on you as a person an people will feed off that.
Your website should have the following:
A professional bespoke design ( A site designed from scratch and not one that looks like everybody else’s. If you are have a template site like others and they get a bad reputation, then clients may just click away if they come onto your site which is similar.
Tip - Use a professional escort web design company and be different, do not use a template site. Let them design your website from scratch.
Excellent quality pictures. You, yes you visually are the selling point, so if you have a choice, good quality pictures or bad quality pictures, what choice are you going to make.
,
Profile - Your profile should outline all the vital areas of information about yourself physically and socially. Body statistics, age, likes, dislikes and anything else attributed to your persona.
Gallery - A gallery which is aesthetically appealing showing your beauty, to the point it takes their breath way of potential clients. Show a range of pics in different attire, locations and moods.
Tip : Find a professional photographer, not a friend. Take a diverse selection of shots and include a few black & white photos on your site.
Service - Define your service and most importantly explain it in depth on the website. The more descriptive you are about the service the more information the client has to make an informed decision. If you are a sensual person and offer a sensual companionship service, emphasis all the aspects.
Tip - Really sell yourself descriptively and when writing about your service give a scenario for the client to envisage being there with you.
Advertising - You could have the best website in the world, if your not in the right places, whether that be in top escort directories or high up on search engines, then you might as well forget about being an escort. Many newspapers are stopping their advertising spaces for escort services. There are a few limited specialist magazines that have readerships but taking advantage of the web is key.
Payment - This is essential to plan out, so you know how to approach the issue of payment with a client a minimize anything going wrong. For example, you come to the end and then when it come to payment the client says I am not happy with the service you provided and refuses to pay. Then you have a problem. Always tackle the payment at the beginning of the service and prior to meeting the client, establish the rules on payment so they are aware. Some escorts use the payment issue as a good ice breaker.
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e always love reading articles on how to become an escort and shaking our heads in disappointment and the weakness of them and the key areas they omit, potentially making anybody you acts on the advice at risk of messing it all up.
Like anything in life if you want to become something you must have a full understanding of what it entails and more importantly the tools and common sense to become it.
You have to understand the main aspects and conduct your own research. Understanding the nature of the service, the legal aspects, as well as the diversity of people and situations that you will encounter are just a snippet.
We have created a guide of “how to become an escort”, which outlines the core elements about the service, the nature of the market, the legalities, the attributes needed by an escort, the clients and much more.
They are as follows:
Escort service: If you want to become an escort you have to understand the nature of the service. Without fully understanding it you will not stand a chance in starting out successfully as an escort.
Q. What is an escort service?
A. An escort service is when one or more individuals provide their time and companionship to one or more individuals.
Do not be fooled. A true, viable escort service is not providing sexual services in exchange for money. If you choose to do so, then your are not an escort and are breaking the law, it is that simple. Even though elements of the media may portray escorts to offer sexual services and some so called escorts have admitted to providing sexual services, that does not mean that should be attributed to what an escort is in the true sense.
Here is a comparison.
Just because a few MP’s could be corrupt, does not make them all corrupt.
Just because a country could contain terrorists, does not make the people or government terrorists.
You make think the above comparisons are extreme, but how would you feel if you are a viable escort and always stigmatized with the notion that you are just a front to offer sexual services? We reckon you will feel disgusted and offended and rightly so.
We are not naïve, there is no fire without smoke and like any profession or market, unfortunately there will be criminal elements.
Rule 1 - Understand that an escort service is for time and companionship service only
So what happens on an actual meeting with a client, what are the ins and outs?
Well the escort service is no different to offer services. You have somebody who provides the service and somebody who wants the companionship. Now the service can take one of two directions. Incall or outcall.
Incall - Where a client visit’s the home or apartment of an escort.
Outcall - Where the escort visit’s the home of the client, or attends a social function with them, or meets them at a hotel that has been pre-arranged.
To become a successful escort you have to understand all the instances of the incall and outcall service. Planning is key. If you are going on an outcall service remember the following:
Always plan your journey. This will avoid you being late, when meeting a client.
Always confirm the time an location of the meeting.
Always take your mobile phone with you, keep it on and keep it charged.
Ask for full details about the function. You may vegetarian, but there may be no vegetarian cuisine.
If viable, let somebody know where you are going.
Rule 2 - Understand the nature of the incall and outcall.
Rule 3 - Plan ahead, the more planning and attention to detail about all aspects of the service and client needs, will eliminate problems.
Rule 4 - Do not be afraid to ask the client questions and ensure your needs will be catered for. You are providing the service, but you have to ensure certain essential provisions are in place, ensuring you can effectively provide your service.
Tax - So you are an individual and receiving money from clients. So guess what, you no need to pay tax, no exceptions. Telephone you local Citizens Advice Bureau and get full information on the right government agencies to contact. It does not matter if you are an independent escort or agency escort, you are all self employed and it is important to manage your cash and money for tax sensibly.
Rule 5 - Understand you are self employed, eligible for tax and make sure you pay your tax.
Personal attributes - Some can argue that certain attributes fall on blind eyes for clients and that the diversity of people in the world will mean that everybody will have something to offer somebody, there anybody can become an escort at the drop of a hat. WRONG!WRONG!WRONG!
There are so many resources saying, hey you can become an escort, but guess what, not everybody will have what it takes to become one. That is just life. Here are a list of following attributes that will be key to have.
Rule 6 - Be yourself, you need to create a rapport with clients and it is advised to relax and be yourself. Do not try to be something you are not unless you can adopt that character convincingly.
Attractiveness: You have to be visually and physically attractive or possess attractive qualities. This isn’t a superficial stance to take, but one that is realistic. It is never good to generalise, but from feedback and experience male and female clients operate differently to a certain extent. Men tend to book attractive women. It’s life. Obviously personality is key but attractiveness is important and to many paramount. You need to posses that “look”, that independent glow that forms rapports on strangers due to your physical qualities.
Rule 7 - It goes without saying, but always look immaculate; dress immaculately, highlight your features and look 110% presentable.
Rule 8 - Your safety is paramount, never take chances. Always plan ahead and take your mobile phone with you, keep it fully charged in case of any emergencies.
Rule 9 - Market yourself effectively, with a professional website, professional photographs and a professional marketing advisor.
Rule 10 - Nothing is free in this world, free escort advertising take it with a pinch of salt, unless you have to give something in return. If you are stuck posting in forums everyday, then you are hardly at the peak of your profession, are you?
Common sense : You either have it or you don’t. Common sense drives us when adapting to new circumstances, evaluating situations and providing a service to potentially a stranger. Common sense will also safeguard your decision making especially when it comes to your safety. Unfortunately if you lack the common sense you wouldn’t be aware that you did.
Personality - Personality is key, it is what defines you as an escort and the service you provide. Whether there are no gimmicks and you are as yourself, or whether you adopt a new one and theme your service, it is you as a person and how you react and create bonds and rapports with strangers. Some people just have the ability to naturally empower people, make them feel, safe secure etc
You have to decide whether you possess a personality strong, worthy and intriguing enough to justify somebody paying to be graced with it.
Marketing: Marketing is key and the effectiveness of how you market yourself will make you either sink or swim. The internet has provided a medium for escorts and escort agencies to advertise their services to potentially millions of clients.
Personal website - It is a very effective way to advertise. It should be informative, well structured and aesthetically pleasing. So if you are not a professional web designer with knowledge of the escort market, if you attempt to make them yourselves then you have just ensured that you will get poor clients, lack of clients and will find it hard to compete with the most professional escorts. Guess what when a pipe bursts you call a plumber, you do not fix it yourself. The same applies to having your website created. Use a trusted company and ensure they will provide an after care service where you can agree a rate for updates.
It makes sense that if you are going to market yourself then you should want your website to look as amazing as it can, as that is what is selling your service. We are shocked, but then not at the amount of poorly designed websites. It has an effect on how people relate to you and judge you. If a high flying business man turned up in a clapped out old vehicle what impression is he creating. If you want to cut those corners then it reflects on you as a person an people will feed off that.
Your website should have the following:
A professional bespoke design ( A site designed from scratch and not one that looks like everybody else’s. If you are have a template site like others and they get a bad reputation, then clients may just click away if they come onto your site which is similar.
Tip - Use a professional escort web design company and be different, do not use a template site. Let them design your website from scratch.
Excellent quality pictures. You, yes you visually are the selling point, so if you have a choice, good quality pictures or bad quality pictures, what choice are you going to make.
,
Profile - Your profile should outline all the vital areas of information about yourself physically and socially. Body statistics, age, likes, dislikes and anything else attributed to your persona.
Gallery - A gallery which is aesthetically appealing showing your beauty, to the point it takes their breath way of potential clients. Show a range of pics in different attire, locations and moods.
Tip : Find a professional photographer, not a friend. Take a diverse selection of shots and include a few black & white photos on your site.
Service - Define your service and most importantly explain it in depth on the website. The more descriptive you are about the service the more information the client has to make an informed decision. If you are a sensual person and offer a sensual companionship service, emphasise all the aspects.
Tip - Really sell yourself descriptively and when writing about your service give a scenario for the client to envisage being there with you.
Advertising - You could have the best website in the world, if your not in the right places, whether that be in top escort directories or high up on search engines, then you might as well forget about being an escort. Many newspapers are stopping their advertising spaces for escort services. There are a few limited specialist magazines that have readerships but taking advantage of the web is key.
Payment - This is essential to plan out, so you know how to approach the issue of payment with a client a minimise anything going wrong. For example, you come to the end and then when it come to payment the client says I am not happy with the service you provided and refuses to pay. Then you have a problem. Always tackle the payment at the beginning of the service and prior to meeting the client, establish the rules on payment so they are aware. Some escorts use the payment issue as a good ice breaker.